In Sunday School class a good man asked, “Why don’t I see more
blessings in my life? I try hard to do what is right. I keep the commandments,
I serve others. And now I’ve lost my job. How can the Lord let that happen?”
Another time a friend sat in my living room and shared. “I’ve
always believed the Lord won’t give you more than you can bear, but now I have
cancer, and I can’t bear it. How could he do this to me?”
On Facebook recently, someone shared a news account of a baby who
was horrifically abused by his parents. The poster prefaced the news account
with her own comment: “How can anyone believe in God? If there were a God, he
would not let things like this happen.”
I’m thinking about these comments this week because of a
thoughtful essay I read in the Sunday New York Times, “Death,
the Prosperity Gospel and Me,” by Kate Bowler. Ms. Bowler, an assistant
professor of the history of Christianity in North America at Duke Divinity
School, has recently completed a scholarly book about Christians who believe
God rewards the faithful with physical blessings, what she calls the prosperity gospel, “the
belief that God grants health and wealth to those with the right kind of faith”
(Kate Bowler, NY Times, February 14,
2016).
Do we expect God to reward us with temporal,
physical blessings because we are good? Conversely, do we believe that those
who do not follow the commandments will be punished by God?
If this
were the case, surely the hospitals would be filled with non-believers. But of
course, we know this isn’t true.
Ms. Bowler has also recently received a diagnosis of Stage 4
cancer. Though she is a scholar studying the cultural phenomenon of the
Prosperity Gospel, and didn’t really expect God to reward her with good health,
she now finds herself asking, “Why me?” She explains her response to her illness.
The most I can say about why I
have cancer, medically speaking, is that bodies are delicate and prone to
error. As a Christian, I can say that the Kingdom of God is not yet fully here,
and so we get sick and die. And as a scholar, I can say that our society is
steeped in a culture of facile reasoning. What goes around comes around. Karma
is a bitch. And God is always, for some reason, going around closing doors and
opening windows. God is super into that. (Bowler)
But I have also wondered why
God won't fix the problems in my life. I know he can. I have the faith.
Like the woman with an issue of blood, I yearn to touch the hem of his garment
and have my problems go away.
Sometimes it’s harder when you
have the faith. You know God could do
it—heal the dying son-in-law, cast out the demons of mental illness, send an
angel to return a child to faith. He has done it before, and why doesn’t he do
it now, for you?
I don’t know the answer to that,
still. But I do have some thoughts.
God’s purpose is to help us
become like him. This isn’t going to happen if this life is easy. So we lose
our jobs and don’t have enough money or time or patience.
To help us grow, God gives us
freedom to act as we will and to suffer the consequences of our behavior. He
will not force us to do anything. Because of this bad people do bad things and
mostly he doesn’t stop them. We suffer the consequences of our own bad choices
and the bad choices of others.
As a schoolroom, He gives us a
flawed, mortal world in which to live in flawed mortal bodies. This means that
our bodies get sick and die.
God also offers us the ultimate
help. He doesn’t say he will not give you more than you can bear. What he does
say is he will help you to bear whatever you must bear, and teach you through your suffering. In other words he is
not as concerned about what happens to you but how you react to it. He says, “My yoke is easy
and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:30).
I love this story in the Book of Mormon. The people
of Alma have been made captive, forced to serve cruel masters, not even allowed
to pray. But they pray silently, and this is the answer to their prayers.
And
I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you
cannot feel them upon your backs. . . .And now it came to pass that the burdens
which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens
with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of
the Lord” (Mosiah 24:14-15; emphasis added).
The
people of Alma were not immediately freed from their captivity, but they were given
the strength to bear their burdens. I
think that is the miracle that most of us can look for in our lives. Not that
the unbearable trials we face will be taken from us, but that through faith we
may be given the strength to bear them, and to even grow better through the
trial.
And I do
know God love us, and he weeps for our sorrows, for all the sorrow, pain,
injustice, and tragedy in this mortal world.
In the Mormon book of Scripture called The Pearl of Great Price,
God has a conversation with Enoch. In vision, Enoch sees with God the great suffering of God’s children. He also sees God
weep. Startled, Enoch asks, “How is it that thou canst weep,
seeing thou art holy, and from all eternity to all eternity?” (Moses 7:29)
God answers, “They are the workmanship of mine own hands, and I
gave them their knowledge . . .; and . . . gave I unto man his agency; . . .
.wherefore should not the heavens weep, seeing these shall suffer? (Moses 7:
32, 37)
Photo credit: James Christensen, Touching the Hem of God
Thought-provoking and inspiring! Thank you!
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DeleteTender topic. I love you. I admire you. I'm grateful for your sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Bryn! It is a hard topic and tender. You are sweet.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Bryn! It is a hard topic and tender. You are sweet.
ReplyDeleteLove you Beth! This is beautiful. --Robbyn
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